How Can You Cope with a Scary Diagnosis?

Your elderly family member might not have been expecting to get a scary health diagnosis, so if one comes, that can be a big shock. Try to focus on action rather than the overwhelm of this new diagnosis, because that can help you to move forward for your senior.

Talk to Her Doctor about What to Expect

Understanding what happens next is crucial for your senior and for you. It’s important to talk to her doctor about what her prognosis is. There may be some factors that are in your senior’s favor, even in light of a scary sounding illness. Even if your elderly family member gets bad news all the way around, that doesn’t mean that this is all the way at the worst-case scenario just yet.

Prioritize Learning as Much as You Can

After you talk with your senior’s doctor, there’s still a lot of learning to do. You can find information in a variety of places, from books to websites to agencies devoted to people who are dealing with the exact same issue. Either you or your elderly family member might want to consider joining a support group, if there’s one available that meets your needs. All of these sources can help you to learn as much as possible.

Ask Your Senior Who She Wants to Know about This

It’s also really important that you respect your senior’s privacy and wishes around her diagnosis. She may not want everyone that knows her to know what she’s facing. This can feel difficult for you, especially if there are people that you feel should know. Remember that being a family caregiver involves a lot of trust on both your part and on your senior’s part. If she feels she can’t trust you, that can damage your relationship and make caregiving a lot more difficult.

Start Looking for Assistance Now

It’s highly likely that you and your senior are going to need more help at some point. It never hurts to start looking for that help now. Bringing in-home care providers can lighten your load considerably now and when your elderly family member finds herself needing a lot more help later, you’re already prepared.

Scary health news is always going to be a bit scary for everyone involved, but there are plenty of things you can do to help ease those feelings, both for yourself and for your senior.

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Andy Howard CEO at HomeCare Professionals

Andy Howard is a Bay Area Native who holds a BA in Political Science (University of Colorado at Boulder, ’97). After college Andy worked in the surging tech industry. His Grandmother however, would suffer a significant decline in health and ultimately needed in-home care. The experience of a loved one depending on outside help to age in place proved to be pivotal for Andy as he left the tech industry in 2002 for an opportunity in the home care world with a large provider. After having success in home care, but being frustrated by corporate constraints Andy founded HomeCare Professionals in 2005. He methodically built the company one client at a time by focusing on hiring quality caregivers to ensure positive outcomes. Currently Andy serves as the CEO of HomeCare Professionals and is also highly active in the non-profit organization California Association of Health Services at Home (CAHSAH) which advocates for a higher standard of in-home care for those who wish to remain living at home in California.

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